Common Parental Concerns

It can feel lonely when, as parents, you have concerns. At Dallington, we understand these concerns and are here to address them. Here are some common worries we support our families with.

I’m worried about my child’s apparent lack of motivation.

They have so much potential, I wish they could see it for themselves.

When is the right time to include our children in the family meetings and start talking about the family business?

They spend so much time online. I am worried they’re lonely.

I wish we could just have a calm discussion without it escalating into an argument.

I keep hearing about ADHD / ASD / OCD / Anxiety – what do they all mean?

Our whole family has been deeply affected by our separation, and we could all use some support and understanding.

We need to start setting some boundaries, but have struggled in the past. Where should we start?

This course/university isn’t working for them, what do we do?

Our child has made so much progress in recovery. What now?

Common Mentee Concerns

And here are some common concerns expressed by the young adults we work with. Some of these may feel familiar to your children.

What does being a ‘next-gen’ mean? Do I have to join the family business?

My parents have provided me with an amazing life, but I need to discover my own path and identity.

I can’t seem to put my ideas/intentions into action, no matter how I try.

I’ll never achieve the same level of success as my parents.

My parents just don’t understand mental health and anxiety.

I often feel like I don’t belong and it’s lonely.

I’m not sure how to manage my recovery in ‘the real world'.

I haven’t got any work experience; how do I even begin to plan a career?

People just assume that because my parents are successful, I have it easy.

I’m really struggling at school/university. What can I do?

Do you have a different concern?

Approach

Adolescence

“We know how much effort you put into our son’s life. It is so enjoyable to work with such competent and caring people like you.”

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We are with you every step of the way

It is natural through the process of individuation that children want to pull away from their parents, and as deeply as we may love them, at some point we have to let go and trust them to find their own way. This can be a scary thought, especially when you have worked so hard to build your reputation and success, and you want the very best for them.

Our compass points towards harmony

We understand this process well, and are well equipped to support both the family and their children in achieving independence and find more harmony in their relationships together during the transition into adulthood.

Our comprehensive psychological, emotional and practical support gives clear guidance towards deeper connection, understanding and better communication within the family as a whole.

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Concerns

Adolescence